- Returning home on the first Sunday of Advent, I had the joy of finding the house all decorated for Christmas with the manger scene already in its place. It was a sign that the Lord had preceded my arrival and welcomed me home.

- Later when I was sharing about the retreat with my wife one of first things that she asked me was : I hope that they told you that you must be motor of your family ! What a surprise and what joy ! Even though she had not been there with me, yet she thoroughly understood. A real proof of the mystery of God and the grace of the Sacrament of Marriage. Beginning with that moment I was able to explain to her that she must be the guardian of wisdom. Her answer was : “Yes, I am its true. But since I always had to be the motor of the family as well, I was tired, cranky and aggressive…” I myself was lost and feeling as if I had nothing left. This was our conversation practically word for word. Although we didn’t speak for a long time, it was very deep and a great joy for both of us. Thank you Lord ! This wasn’t the end either.

- Later in the evening there was some tension between us after a particular discussion. Normally this type of discussion would have quickly degenerated in 48 hours. Inside of me, I realised that I had to stop and I remembered that I was now the “Guardian of love !”. I immediately stopped speaking and took on a more gentle tone. I quickly saw peace return to Sophie. She had also changed her tone. At that moment I understood what it meant to be the guardian of love as well as the “motor”. “There is no greater love than to lay down your life for those you love”. There is also no greater love than to die to yourself (pride, having the last word) for those you love. I am ready to die for this every day !

These are just a few of things I’ve experienced since the retreat. I’m not even able to express all that I feel. It’s just incredible ! !